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Wednesday, July 16, 2008

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5:51 PM

Let me see... Nothing interesting today. Perhaps just some clearing of my mind early in the morning... Yes, I'm gonna re-direct my attention to study since I've given no alternate choices.

And yes! I've done a Mini-Motivation Posters yesterday nite~ but isn't really that nice given the artistic talent of mine. I'll produce a MUCH BETTER one when I have the time this coming few days

So basically, yesterday nite was an emotional ride for me... wasn't that fun riding it.

OH YA! I've finally gotten MY FG CLASS-TEE!! WOOTS! 3 CHEERS FOR FG!!! Its extremely nice lah~ Wanna Thank Camy for all the hardwork! :) F.U.C.K = Friends You Can Keep~ =x

2 SPA down, 1 more to go~ Jiayou to Wilmer! But... Physic's SPA seems hard... Electricity & Magnetism.

I've got 1 thing to share with everyone today:

We were supposed to read the 联合早报 for Chinese lesson den I came across this interesting article in 爆米花~ its in chinese but I'll translate it in my own words.

Basically, the article revolves using "GOOD FRIEND/PERSON" as an excuse to reject someone when he/she confesses his/her LOVE. So, the writer refer this excuse as a "GOOD FRIEND/PERSON CARD".

SCENERIO 1

Guy A: Can I.... Can I.... be a friend of urs?

Lady B: Alrite, but aren't we friends already?

Guy A: No No No~ Wad I meant was..... A special kind of friend lah.

Lady B: Friends = Friends, where got different type de? *acting dumb*

Guy A: *worried* I mean... a friend whom can is willing to DO ALL KINDS OF THINGS for you.

Lady B: Have wad... U helped me when I moved house didn't you? Therefore, you're my GREATEST HELPER! Okay... If there is nothing else, I gtg le, BUAI~ *smile*

Guy A: WAIT!!!! Wad I wanted to say was.... CAN YOU PLEASE BE MY GIRLFRIEND???

Lady B: .......... *a flock of crows flew by* AhHock arh, you know we are "GOOD FRIENDS" wad, and I really hope you will always remain as my "GOOD FRIEND".

Guy A: But.... But.... *weeping*

Lady B: *grabbing this chance* You're one "hard-to-come-by" guy~ AhHock.

-END-

Althought the above scenerio seems abit too Channel 8... but I supposed there are many similar experiences. When someone confesses, the opposite often used "You are "GOOD PERSON", but we cannot be together." and from then on, "GOOD FRIEND/PERSON" had became the "TITLE" of someone being rejected. And "GOOD FRIEND/PERSON CARD" had became the meaning of rejected by "UR CRUSH".

There are many ways how someone reject his/her admirer but ALMOST EVERYONE agree on the "You're actually a very 'GOOD PERSON'" way.

The "GOOD FRIEND/PERSON" often refers to someone who gave in alot for his/her crush but eventually got rejected.

There is also another commonly used method in the U.S. "It's not you, it's me" method. When one relationship enters the "breaking-up" stage, very often, this is wad will happen:

Lady A: Hey... You're a very "GOOD PERSON" but I dun think we can carry on like this. I'm not blaming you, in fact you're a "EXTREMELY GOOD PERSON"... but there's a problem...

Guy B: Wads the problem?

Lady A: Its not your problem, the problem lies in me... blah blah blah~

Therefore, if you've been issued the "GOOD FRIEND/PERSON CARD", you're disqualified~ dun carry on pestering the opposite, cos it will only annoy him or her.